52.11- Motherhood is.... Remembering to Take Time for Yourself

Being a mother is a full time job! And being a stay at home mom, is even more full time then one can imagine!

Some days seem never ending.  At times going to the potty is the only few moments you get alone, except for the pounding on the door, lol!  You notice that its noon and you are just getting your shower, or perhaps you have a few extra minutes and you can jump in and run around real quickly before then, but not without once again the pounding on the door, lol.

The shower, the potty and of course of morning cup of coffee, use to be my quiet moments.  Moments that I more than likely took advantage of.  I never realized how special those bits of quiet were or how much they helped my sanity.

But now as a mommy of almost two young boys and I understand the need for making time for myself.  I know that in a few short months even Jackson's nap times are going to be busy with taking care of Benjamin, so I must take the time now to enjoy the quiet moments I have left.

My morning cup of coffee, my evening book and of course any other few moments of quiet I can get will be taken with a new found appreciation.  Because without those moments, I can't be the best mom or wife I can be.

52.10- Motherhood is.... Building a Foundation

As a parent there is so much we try to teach our children. We want them to be confident, outgoing, kind, loving, understanding, we want them to respect boundaries and stand on their own.
Lately, I've been really focused on how blessed I am! Maybe it's the time of year and celebrating my anniversary or perhaps it has to do with the distance Matthew and I are experiencing with him working in San Jose. Either way you slice it, I've never felt so blessed!
My blog last week I talked about my amazing husband and sharing this journey with me. My mother-in-law made a beautiful comment that has really stuck with me!
She said... "Beautifully said. Someone once shared with me that the secret to a happy family was to ensure that first and foremost your focus should be your marriage, with God at the center. Your children would feel loved and secure inside that incredible bond, and also learn to have healthy relationships as they grew. Your lovely words personify this message. Jack and Ben are lucky boys."
These words have spoken so strongly to be and I can't help but feel that through the commitment of marriage, Matthew and I really are building the foundation for our boys to have all the hopes and dreams we wish and pray for them!
Living by example and showing our boys the gift of love, faith, commitment and respect.... Those are the stones of foundation we hope to instill in them.

52.9- Motherhood is..... Being Thankful For Your Partner

So, I've been struggling with this current blog, which is why it's Tuesday and Im just getting it out. I originally had one I was working on, but when I went to finish it this morning it was gone. Ugggh!!!
I'm taking that as a sign along with today being my 2 year Wedding Anniversary to change my topic and write about my amazing partner, who shares this journey of Parenthood with me!
I have to say that God really knew what He was doing when He put Matthew in my path!! He knew exactly the kind of man I need in order to balance my life! There are SO many things we share and are alike in, but there are almost as many way that we are different. He brings a sense of calm into my world, builds me up when I'm in doubt and always has my back, even if he doesn't see things the same way! We have an amazing marriage built on mutual love, respect, understanding and communication!
But above all of these amazing characteristics I get to add that he is an unbelievable daddy!! To watch him with our son is the greatest gift! I always knew he was going to be an amazing father but to watch him.... Beyond my wildest dreams!
He gives our son things that I'm not strong in and adds balance to his life!
He is the perfect partner and daddy for our family and we all benefit from his love and dedication to our us!
Love you baby!! Happy Anniversary and thank you for being exactly who you are and bringing this family the perfect combination!!
Xoxo

52.8- Motherhood is..... AWESOME

It's true, I admit it, being a mommy really is awesome!! I always knew I wanted this "job" when "I grew up" but I never really thought I would really be blessed to stay home with my boy(s).
Jackson has been in an extra lovey mood these past few weeks! He runs up to me and snuggles his face into my legs. He looks at me with adoring eyes and says my name. He's even started holding my face for kisses!!.... Awww my heart just melts and I know I'm doing exactly what I was meant to do!!
There are challenges that every mommy faces. Whether you stay at home or leave everyday to go to a job. Being a mommy is exhausting at times, but no heart can resist that first smile of the day or the grin they give when they do something they shouldn't!!
Parenthood is AWESOME!! And I'm thrilled to be with my boy(s) everyday, discovering new adventures, challenges and tickle spots!! There's no place I'd rather be!!

Project 52.7- Motherhood is.... Having Two Boys!

As Benjamin's arrival gets closer I'm reminded everyday that I'm going to be the momma of two beautiful boys! This reminder had had its overwhelming moments.... Twice the independence, twice the bumps, scratches and bruises BUT I'm also reminded that I'll have twice the amount of love!
Having Jackson has taught me so much about boys!! They are such a different creature than girls... They are rough, the tumble harder, they love to rough-house, they get crazy dirty and they don't even notice!
I'm truly looking forward to Benjamin's arrival... Twice the amount of kisses, love and cuddles!! Nothing beats the look when your son sees you, runs to you or just wants to be held!
So to my boys.....
Your momma is blessed to have you both! There are going to be some crazy, hectic, messy days in our future BUT I promise, my arms will always be open, my lap always ready and I will always have time for kisses, hugs, loves, stories and YOU!!
Xoxoxo

My 2 boys